Most people in today’s society seem caught up in trying to make money. Many people
resort to different methods in order to make some earnings. Some go about it the legal way and
put in the effort, dedication, hard work, and sacrifices necessary to attain success, while some
have lowered their standards and values in life by engaging in scams, fraud, deceit, theft and
many other illegal ways in order to earn money quickly and have their own self deluded
“success”.
But does your success have to be measured by how much is in your bank account?
Vanity has become glorified as the success of today’s society. People push away family,
friends, and go against their values just to get the money and achieve success, but is money all
that there is to success? Can you say you’re truly successful if you have health problems due to
all the time you neglected proper health care due to striving for success? Of course the hard work
and perseverance through the pain seems admirable. When you do make it, you can call yourself
a strong person, see yourself as a person who doesn’t quit, as you pushed through the health
problems to put in work, but you can’t deny that they’d eventually have their effects that can be
long term. Can you also call yourself successful if you haven’t built anything aside from
monetary wealth?
The family and friends we make along the road to success, are also part of the
things that contribute to having a more successful life. What’s the point of feeling like you’re on
top of the world with the money you have, only for you to have no one around to talk to? No one
to share joy and laughter with, no one who can help you get through stressful moments? These
are reasons why bonds are necessary. When you go with only one goal in mind, i.e; money, you
wouldn’t be able to look around, look within, and try to establish other meaningful things in life.
When you seek proper success, i.e; something that’s meaningful and highly valuable to
you and others around you, there are certain attributes you have to portray and pedestalize.
1. Avoid excess work as much as possible. It may sound ideal that you are trying to
take on a lot of responsibilities, and makes you look like an overachiever, but
burdening yourself with a lot of work can lead to burnouts faster.
2. Patience: looking for quick ways to success often have their downsides, so it’s
best to be patient, putting in sufficient work everyday and hoping for the best.
3. Consistency: to be patient for your success, you need consistency as well. You
can’t have patience without putting any work in, and hope for some sort of
miracle to happen before you become successful. Miracles do happen, but
consistency is key, and maybe somewhere along the lines, a miracle might happen
for you, but you just have to remain consistent with your work.
4. Self belief or confidence: do not be arrogant, or cocky, but do not downplay your
hard work. Just put in the effort, do not doubt yourself, and believe that you can
accomplish the things you’ve set out to do.
5. Take time to pause, look around and appreciate the hard work you’ve done.
Perhaps this is the most essential attribute as you look back on your work to see
how far you’ve come, and gives you the confidence to keep on going. These
moments of looking around you also helps you establish connections. You build
stronger bonds with family and friends, and make sure you aren’t isolating
yourself from people.
Take these tips into consideration, and keep on pushing towards your goals, and
I’ll see you at the top.
Good luck!
By: Carlson Nwawuru